 
- Martin - the glare of the glasses does not glow as much as his Spirit.
 This girl is one tough customer, I often ask for the craziest things,  but always enjoy a straight up yes or no to my request, please no  mamby-pambing around.  So after being in Piegaro only a few days and  realizing that Caffe Via Roma not only had great coffee, great  customers, but a swell place for me to work on my computer during my  "working vacation" I asked if I could hang out at the telephone stand  and work.  It was optimal, the table at the perfect height, the wood  floors that were easy on the legs, and constant life going on through  the doorway at the bar.  Looking back I realize it was an odd sort of  selfish request, but Martin said yes.
Martin is fabulous at hosting, serving and caring for the people who  walk through the doors of Caffe Via Roma, whether family, workers in  town, locals, Moravian expats or this crazy Americana, all are treated  with courtesy and respect.   On the Caffe facebook he sums up his role  at Via Roma perfectly, "l'importante che se ne parli..."- "it is  important that we speak."  Martin sets the tone for the Caffe, where  people come to speak and share their hearts.  Yet it is a place where  being open and often emotional did not take away from the place, I felt  in due to Martin's non-anxious presence.  For me it was a great place of  calm in a world that often is so rushed, hurried and weary, and was  soooooo appreciated.
The amusing part is that I relied on Martin often to translate with  Maria or other folks in the Caffe, and he knows about as much English as  I do Italian - but he was a great charades partner.  I would act out,  say in Spanish, try to find synonyms that might be Latin in origin and  he would respond, "Ahhhh..." and bring forth the correct word or phrase  in Italian.  He is so helpful in opening up communication for myself and  others in a gracious way.    The communication barrier became fun as we  all tried to get to know one another.
In my joy of finding someone who could guide me a bit in  communication, I'm sure I made things difficult for Martin in several  ways.  The one day I was traveling through Umbria alone I ask for his  opinion on the best way to travel to Todi that would be  picturesque...then complained that I didn't want to take the Autostrada,  as if I knew best.  As I left Todi I remembered the hurt in his eyes at  my not taking his suggestion, so thus drove home the way he suggested.   Within a few kilometers the Tiber River (Tivere) opened before me, it  took my breathe away with it's amazing beauty....so now I felt REALLY  guilty, the man truly knows the most scenic drive to Todi!
In my weeks in Piegaro Martin was my workplace host, my friend and my  "bodyguard"???  No, not really, but that was what one customer asked  when referring to an incident when, quite unbeknown to myself, an  unwanted suitor accompanied me to my home one day under false pretenses  and Martin  simply came along, chaperoning.     As he explained to the  customer, he was not my bodyguard, but a friend who was providing me a  place of calm in which to be and work..... and I am so grateful.  Also  grateful that the people in the town would talk so openly, even about  me, while I was in listening range.  I liked that Martin would call the  men who gave me unwanted attention, "Crazy" - not anything demeaning or  hurtful but so true.  It is my theory that we are all crazy in our own  ways and how we function together in our madness without hurting one  another is the key to life.  The constant conversations at the Caffe  encouraged by Martin was a way to bring together and hold so lovingly  the people of Piegaro, a band of crazies, just as we need to gently hold  together all people, all the crazy world.
One funny thing we had in common, always a thing I like to look for  is common places, is wearing bracelets.  Someone in the caffe asked once  what my "fruits of the spirit" bracelets were, basically my reminder to  behave and it was fun to see a customer advise Martin how best to use  his bracelets in the same manner.  It was a conversation they were  having on behaviors when the gentleman reached across and snapped  Martin's bracelet, as some folks do when wearing a rubber band to snap  when they want to smoke.  It's a small world where can use accessories  as reminders - so every now and then I shall snap a bracelet as I  remember Martin.
I can't imagine Piegaro without a person like Martin, being host of  the Caffe.  My friend Colleen has been visibly disappointed that  Martin's partner, Arnica, is no longer running the Caffe, a person  Colleen could rely on for English speaking company, which I know is so  important to her.  But Martin's being a home boy, with family nearby  always, seemed to be a great asset to me, as with other people I met he  belonged to this place, he has history,  roots and connection to the  people.  I loved how the community from young to old hung out in this  special place with this special person.
Next year in Piegaro, when I speak Italiano I shall be able to ask  Martin questions like, what did you do before working at the caffe, and  do you love this work you are so amazingly good at?  Do you miss your  old work?  Is it a comfort to have your family so close?  It was so cool  to me how they were always around as my relatives live so far away.   How is the turning of the world's economy effecting your beautiful shop  and community?
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- Martin with his dad, Rodolfo outside Bar Caffe Via Roma.
 
  
 
 
- Sharing stories, books and beverages.